Saturday, August 21, 2010

01 Mr Do/ Ms Do and Dragon Are Necessary for Balance

Widgets left to themselves would compete without order to rule the roost.  Much like a can of worms they would try to reach the top climbing on each other wrapping around others. Or they may lye dormant at the bottom and let the others take over. We would walk around in a dream state looking around or act much like a psychopath without feelings for others and very impulsive doing what we want, when we want, and how we want.  We would expound on the world our unguided and senseless philosophies that may do little good.  Our species would disappear unless we reproduced like cockroaches leaving dead bodies behind us.

If widgets had no guidance we would still have personalities as everyone has a dominant widget or two or more.  Some people would be observers, others emotional, thinkers, and doers but there would be little coordination between people for the good of all.  We may get war lords, criminals, and we all would have to obey the few or go to our lower natures to survive.  It may look something like war at its worst.

The hero of the day in healthy environments is Mr /Ms Do.  He/she is the awake conscious leader of the pack.  As the officiator of the sequence of widget activity, the hero takes reports from all the widgets equally with out bias and makes a reality that is workable given the needs of the body, or the 'Myself', the Past Lessons and habits, the beliefs about how it all works, and the skills and talents available and a reality that will fit the current situation for the good of self and others.  Other people and their experiences are a resource and help the hero see a workable reality.  The grater the wisdom and resources the more others are taken into consideration, the difference between the baby and the Grandparents. Our hero balances widgets and others' reports to find the best solutions.  If need be he/she will help a weak but important widget be seen and heard and may suppress other widgets or Dragon to find a workable reality and solution.  

In threatening situations that will not work with the above formula, perhaps because there is not enough time,  Dragon has a role to play and may decide the difference between life and death.

When we have both the hero and the Dragon working together most all bases are covered.  To make this possible the brain has a fuse box that turns off the fear so we can rush in a hot fire to save a loved one.  In drastic cases where a person's life is threatened love also may turn off so the person can hurt others in their pursuance of safety.  If they stay off, which happens in prolonged cases of abuse, impulsive actions result from the frazzled nerves and we have a psychopath.  If the psychopath turns off responsible reasoning and begins to hurt others for selfish, dragon and crew, reasons we have a sociopath.

Thursday, August 19, 2010

02 Mr. Do, upper nature, Can Control

When Mr/Ms Do is strong, he/she stops the chaos by taking control and putting the widgets in a logical order. Do gives each a chance to talk and keeps Dragon and Crew below so they do not try and dominate.

Dragon is very primitive and likes to take over if possible.  Dragon is a very strong instinct of survival.  Always waiting for him and the lower nature widgets to pop up and take advantage.  Children have to be taught to engage Mr/Ms Do first.

The most functional sequence is for Ant and Bee to see whats out in the world, then let Cuddles and Macho decide if its friendly or dangerous, then decide how to approach the situation, and then let Turtle and Rabbit proceed at the right pace to  accomplish the task that will help them and the rest of the world.  But the widgets can talk back and forth to figure out whats out there, ask Ant and Bee to look for things, ask Geru  if something is what it appears to be or if it is safe or not, give Geru more information, or ask Rabbit if something can be done or not, if the skills are there.  Sounds like thinking.            

The problems arise when the widgets are not cooperative because of natural personality differences, emotional disturbances form childhood or other experiences, misinformation, or lack of skills.  The next posts will address many of these problems and what to do to better coordinate them and balance them out so a person can think better what to do to be aware, happy, wise, and pro active.

Tuesday, August 17, 2010


There are Ten progressive levels for Personality that are or will be covered by blogs. These are:
  1) Individual Personalities to be seen at
  2) Family Personalities and their Interactions to be seen at
  3) Cognitive Personality to be seen at
  4) Situational Personality to be seen at
  5) Community Personalities, a cartoon story about gadgets to be seen at
  6) State Personality, yet to come.
  7) Nation Personality, yet to come.
  8) International Personality, yet to come.
  9) Role of Consciousness , started at
10) Changing Personality for the better to be seen at for the role of Mr/Ms Do and Dragon in Personality at for tips on how to change your widgets, personality traits. Become a member of the to get up dates on the progression of the blogs and web sites and cartoons.

You order shirts, mugs, etc. with different personality types when you go to the Personality Test.

You can also use's internet forum, email, or skype to ask questions on topics or on your personality, the forum is free, so is email if it is not too long and taking up too much time. You can email to scheduale long times, at a dollar a minute for answer writing only, if it is going to take over a few minutes. I don't mind a short chat. 

Sunday, August 15, 2010

04 This Blog Has Been Continued At

Read from beginning to end. Then decide where to go.

PERSONAL JOURNEY  has been continued at under start your Personal Growth Journey at the top of the web's title bar. I am giving hints on how to improve your widgets and therefore your Biological Personality, Family Personality, Cognitive Personality, and Situational Personality. There will also be a section on how to put all four of you personalities together to assess your overall personality. The sections are reading only.

PERSONAL JOURNEY TOPICS are also continued a